Third Sunday of Easter – April 19, 2026

1 Peter 1:17-23

When Susan and I are in Munich Germany visiting our family…we try to live like a local…by buying pastry and coffee each morning…

  • But early on we nearly bankrupted the bakery by paying with a 50-euro note for cinnamon rolls that cost less than two euros.
  • My Canadian friend…while in Tokyo…on business…wanted to show respect with a polite bow…and ended up in a slow-motion bowing contest with a senior executive…until a secretary stepped in.
  • My friend from the UK…while in Rome…asked for a penna (pen)…but accidentally requested penne…and got a plate of pasta which she did not need…and not the writing utensil which she did need.
  • OK then…when you live in a foreign country…you quickly learn that what’s obvious to everyone else may not be obvious to you.

It’s not easy to live in a country not your own…surrounded by languages you do not speak…customs you do not understand and value systems that do not quite align with your own.

  • What is really irritating is that you must pay twice as much for Captain Crunch than you would were you shopping in the US at Winn-Dixie.
  • And yet managing this friction of being foreign…the apostle Peter says…is precisely how exiles ought to live.
  • The Lord be with you.

Some expats embrace their foreigner status with curiosity and humility.

  • But others can never shake the feeling that they do not fit in.
  • This sense of alien-ness renders them unable or unwilling to adjust…and so…
  • If they are American…for example… they may insulate themselves inside little bubbles of American culture…
  • English-speaking restaurants…satellite TV…social clubs and gated communities.

However…Peter writes…exiles live as foreigners here…in reverent fear.

  • Exiles do not retreat into comfort or insist on control.
  • They learn to dwell attentively in the tension between who they are and where they are…
  • Dealing with the unsettling sense of cultural dislocation with humility and hope.

First Peter was written for people who understood this feeling of exile…

  • People living out of sync with the dominant culture.
  • They were not tourists passing through.
  • They were resident aliens marginalized for their faith…scattered across Asia Minor…
  • Clinging to a strange hope in a resurrected Jesus.
  • Peter is speaking to Christians scattered across Asia Minor…modern-day Turkey.
  • Many of them were literal foreigners:
  • Jews living outside Israel.
  • Or Gentiles newly converted to a faith their neighbors did not understand.

Peter opens by calling them exiles of the dispersion in Pontus…Galatia…Cappadocia…Asia and Bithynia…who have been chosen and destined by God.

  • The word exiles or strangers is a reminder of their status:
  • Not fully at home in the culture around them.
  • Not fully understood by neighbors.
  • Living under the rule of Rome but belonging to the kingdom of God.
  • Ever feel like this?
  • Well…Peter does…so…he explains how his readers can live and thrive in this tension.

When you live in a foreign country…you learn not to hand over large bills for small purchases in Germany.

  • You figure out the right way to bow in Tokyo.
  • You memorize polite phrases in the local language because you respect the culture you are living in.

And so…Peter says…remember you are living in God’s world now.

  • God’s culture is the culture you honor.
  • God’s language is the dialect you speak.
  • God’s way is your way.
  • And that means some things will feel strange…even awkward…to the people around you…
  • Because…you are a person who:
  • Chooses forgiveness when revenge would seem more appropriate.
  • Practices generosity in a world obsessed with getting more.
  • Lives with integrity when cutting corners would be easier.
  • Holds on to hope when many people are cynical.

Foreigners usually stand out…and so should God’s people.

  • And they do it (we do it) in fear…Peter says.
  • That is not fear as in terror.
  • It is rather a deep respect for the One who has called us to live in this earthly sphere.

And Peter says it’s to be practiced…during the time of your exile…

  • Evoking the imagery of the Babylonian Captivity of the Jews in the fourth century BCE.
  • Peter is reimaging the Exile in which Christians live out their faith while living under the thumb of Nero of Rome…rather than Nebuchadnezzar of Babylon.
  • For example…if the world says:
  • Assert yourself…we say…Deny yourself.
  • If the world says: Climb higher…we say…be servants of all.
  • If the world says: Build your brand…we say…Bear his name.
  • If the world says: Seek comfort…we say…Take up your cross.
  • If the world says: Fit in…we say…stand apart.

Think again of being an expat.

  • You are careful to learn the customs…not because you are afraid of being arrested…
  • But because you respect the people and the place you have come to call home.
  • In the same way…to live in fear means we live with the awareness that every choice we make…
  • Reflects on our Lord…whose kingdom we represent.
  • It is a holy mindfulness in which we honor the Lord Jesus who gave up his life for us.
  • We are mastering the art of not fitting in…
  • Even though we are living and working and setting up a household in a foreign place.

Talk to an expat and he or she will tell you that the expatriate life is never static!

  • You are always learning…adjusting and frequently longing for home.
  • This mirrors our experience as Christians in the world.
  • There will be trouble as we journey toward our true home.
  • There will be missteps and adjustments that take time.
  • But the pilgrim has one asset that Peter says will surely assist us in this in between time…
  • Through him you have come to trust in God…so that your trust and hope are in God.
  • Living between here and home requires hope.

If you have ever been lost in a foreign city…you know the relief of having someone step in to guide you…

  • To point you in the right direction…to make sure you get home safely.
  • Peter’s message is that Jesus has done exactly that for us.

So…live as a foreigner here.

  • Stand out…do not worry about not fitting in.
  • Rather…embrace it.
  • Practice the customs of the kingdom.
  • Let our lives be a living translation of the gospel in a land that does not yet speak its language.
  • Because one day…we will walk through the gates of our true homeland…
  • And the awkwardness will be over.
  • We will be home…fluent in the language of love…and welcomed by our heavenly Father.