Matthew 1:18-25
There are three versions of the Christmas story.
- There’s the Gospel According to Matthew…where we get Joseph’s dream and the wise men and the star in the East.
- Then there’s the Gospel According to Luke…where we get the shepherds and the angels and the fact that there was no room in the inn.
- And then there’s the Gospel According to Hallmark…in which we get a smorgasbord of all the above including the wise men…the shepherds…a host of angels…lowing cattle and a partridge in a pear tree.
If you’d like to see a visual representation of the Hallmark version…just drive by the house near the intersection of Trevesta Place and Hevena Court in my neigborhood.
- In addition to Santa…Frosty…Rudolph and the other reindeer…it includes Mickey…Pluto and Donald Duck.
- There’s also a nativity scene…but you’ll have to look hard to find it.
The Hallmark version is the most popular because it gives us the whole nine yards.
- Yes…I’m mocking Hallmark…but truth be told…I have a subscription to Hallmark on my TV.
- Also…take a good look at our Nativity in the Narthex.
- It’s not true to the text.
- So…let’s take a look at Matthew.
We hear a lot about Mary…and rightly so.
- She was…after all…the mother of Jesus.
- The only person constant in the life of Jesus from the cradle to the grave.
- But what do we know about Joseph?
- In all the New Testament he never utters a word.
- Yet…he’s one of the principal figures in the Christmas drama.
Joseph was a simple man of an honorable trade: A carpenter from Nazareth.
- Sometimes you see Sunday school pictures showing him in a wood shop making furniture.
- But “carpenter” in Joseph’s day referred to a wide range of trades.
- Joseph most likely worked with metal…stone and wood.
- The Greek is “tekton” and literally means stone mason.
- The regional capital…Sepphoris…was under construction during this time.
- And it was within walking distance of Nazareth.
- Joseph…and his sons…were stone masons there.
Craftsmen worked with strong shoulders and callused hands.
- They were educated by apprenticeship.
- Their place was respectable but not on one of the higher rungs of the social ladder.
- Remember the flap in the synagogue in Nazareth when Jesus preached his first sermon?
- The elders raised their eyebrows and asked: “Isn’t this the carpenter…the son of Mary and brother of James…Joses…Judah and Simon?”
Jesus’ father was neither a rabbi nor a scribe nor one of the civic leaders.
- He had but two qualifications in the Christmas drama.
- He was a descendent of David and he was God’s choice.
- A common man who dared to be obedient to God.
His place in the Christmas story is that of Mary’s husband.
- OK then…Joseph and Mary were “betrothed” but not yet married.
- There were three steps in a Jewish marriage:
- The engagement…which was often arranged by the parents through a matchmaker when the boy and girl were children.
- The betrothal…which was a formal ratification of the marriage-to-be.
- Usually done a year before the couple was married.
- And the wedding itself…which lasted an entire week.
- During the week of celebration…the marriage was consummated.
During the betrothal…the couple was legally bound to each other so that…if the man died before the actual wedding took place…
- The woman became a widow.
- They were referred to as husband and wife…though they refrained from having sexual relations.
It’s at this stage in their relationship that Joseph learned that Mary was pregnant.
- I think it’s safe to say Joseph blew a gasket.
- Joseph was beside himself to learn that his fiancé was pregnant.
- He was angry and upset.
- If Mary were pregnant…the only explanation would have been that she had been unfaithful.
- In which case…he had a legal right to have her stoned to death.
It’s at this point Joseph proves his faithfulness.
- First to Mary and then…to God.
- When Joseph learned that Mary was pregnant…he was not willing to make her a public example.
- And so…he intended to put her away secretly.
Joseph was a man of quiet strength.
- He was a man of integrity…true to his convictions.
- Yet…he was compassionate and considerate of others.
- He found himself in a no-win situation.
- He could not in good conscience…go on with the wedding.
- Yet…he could not bring himself to humiliate Mary…much less put her to death.
Breaking off the relationship…but not making a big deal of it…seemed to be the most honorable thing to do.
- But wait! There’s more!
- Joseph had a dream in which an angel of the Lord appeared to him and told him that the child in Mary’s womb was of the Holy Spirit.
- And that he should become a father to the child.
- Well…there you have it…the angel explained everything.
- I don’t know many people who make major life decisions based upon what they think they saw or heard in a dream though.
- Yet…Joseph awoke from his sleep and did as the angel of the Lord commanded him.
- Joseph took his wife to himself…and did not know her sexually until she had brought forth her firstborn son.
And then…in an act of faithfulness and obedience to God…
- Joseph publicly named the child.
- He named him Jesus…which means…the Lord is salvation.
- In so doing…he claimed the child as his own and gave him a noble ancestry.
- Making him a descendent of the house of David.
- Because of the faithfulness of Joseph…
- Jesus would have a father.
- And Joseph would have a place in the drama of God’s salvation.
I have a friend years ago whose girlfriend got pregnant.
- Naturally…he assumed he was the father.
- But the scuttlebutt around school was that she’d been seeing other guys…
- And that my friend wasn’t the father after all.
- Of course…back then we didn’t have paternity testing.
- So…there wasn’t any way to know for sure.
- But there it was…enough to give him an out…if he wanted it.
- He decided to ask his girlfriend to marry him.
- She accepted…and they got married and shortly after…she gave birth to a daughter.
- Who quickly became…and is to this day…the apple of his eye.
He would be the first to tell you that…beyond all his many accomplishments…
- It was in becoming a father to this little girl that he found his true vocation in life.
- When I think about my friend…I’m reminded of the faithfulness of Joseph.
- It has something to do with getting your own self out of the way and putting others first.
- It’s an exercise in humility and it’s based on a simple trust.
- That by God’s grace…all things really do work together for good for those who love the Lord and are called according to his purposes. (Romans 8:28)
To the world…the faithfulness of Joseph may seem foolish.
- But to those who are willing to follow his example and surrender their wills to the will of God.
- The faithfulness of Joseph is not simply a way of pleasing God.
- It’s a way of fulfilling your own life’s destiny.