3rd Sunday after Pentecost – June 9, 2024

Mark 3:20-35

In our reading this morning we see some of Jesus family members come and try to take charge of him.

  • Why? Because they thought he was crazy.
  • They thought he was out of his mind.
  • They thought he had gone “over the edge”.
  • They thought he was crazy because of what he was doing.
  • Preaching about the kingdom of God…healing…and debating with powerful officials.
  • You can sense the agony of the conflict as you hear the story of how family members decided among themselves to “put him away quietly”…
  • Before he did any more damage to himself and them.

 

The Lord be with you.

And also with you.

 

OK…so what is really going on here?

  • You see…Jesus had left home and the carpentry business his father Joseph had set up in Nazareth.
  • Jesus’ departure had directly affected the financial security of his family.
  • Because he was the oldest son of a deceased father.
  • In Jewish culture…as the oldest son…Jesus was responsible for the security of the entire family.
  • And Jesus had become an itinerant preacher…which had no security for him or for his family.
  • And there was a lot of gossip in Nazareth when that happened.
  • The family was embarrassed by what appeared to be an act of an irresponsible man.

 

Why? Because Jesus was on a head-on collision course with the orthodox religious leaders of his day.

  • No sensible man would deliberately agitate the PTB (The Powers That Be).
  • Jesus’ family knew that Jesus could not win in a battle with the priests…the Pharisees…and the Sadducees (the Jewish ruling elite).
  • The conflict with the religious leaders rose to fever pitch when the religious leaders accused Jesus of being “possessed by Beelzebub” saying:
  • “He is driving out demons by the prince of demons”.
  • Jesus’ family and friends thought he was “beside himself”.

 

And then Jesus says something rather interesting.

  • He says: “Who are my mother and my brothers?” And looking at those who sat around him…he said: “Here are my mother and my brothers! Whoever does the will of God is my brother and sister and mother.”
  • The key to understanding this is Jesus saying:
  • “Whoever blasphemes against the Holy Spirit will never be forgiven…he is guilty of an eternal sin”.

 

And so…what is this unforgivable sin?

  • If we lie…but regret…we can be forgiven.
  • If we dishonor one another…but regret…we can be forgiven.
  • If we hurt one another…but regret…we can be forgiven.
  • If we hurt God…but regret…we can be forgiven.

 

One of the activities of the Holy Spirit is to bring us to the point where we are willing to forgive and be forgiven.

  • To blaspheme or curse the Holy Spirit means to stubbornly cling to our own thoughts and opinions with an unwillingness to forgive and be forgiven.
  • This hard-heartedness had set like concrete in the hearts of the Pharisees who were never regretful or repentant.

 

The unforgivable sin is not to repent or to have no regret.

  • God’s will is that we have regret and be remorseful.
  • That attitude of regret or repentance is what constitutes the faith family and brings reconciliation to the family of faith.
  • In this context…Jesus would have meant that it especially included his own biological family.

 

So…reconciliation DID come to Jesus’ family members at the crucifixion and resurrection of Jesus.

  • We do not really know how it happened.
  • But…we only know that it happened.

 

Mary and Jesus’ brothers were there with the believers in earnest prayer.

  • Somehow…they had seen the amazing integrity that Jesus possessed.
  • And had become followers of the Way.
  • Through forgiveness they had joined the faith family.
  • Later we are told that James…Jesus’ brother…became the head of the church at the council of Jerusalem.
  • James had come a long way from wanting to put Jesus away to heading up the church.
  • And Jesus’ family came to know the joy of forgiveness through the power of the resurrected Lord.
  • They still believed that Jesus was out of his mind…
  • But in a different way than they had originally thought.
  • Here is what I mean.

 

Despite a long day at work and a cold coming on…it was Mary’s night to staff the soup kitchen our church helped to sponsor.

  • People were depending on her.
  • So…with extra Kleenex…water…Tylenol and a face mask…she went downtown.
  • Mary was certainly out of her mind.

 

Aidan…a disciple in our parish…was in the middle of a meeting with prospective buyers.

  • This deal had been in the works for months.
  • But the prospective buyers insisted on changes to the original agreement.
  • There was money to be made…
  • But a lot of good and talented employees would lose their jobs.
  • And the customer service protocols Aidan had worked so hard to establish would be seriously compromised.
  • So…Aidan walked away from the deal.
  • Aidan was certainly out of his mind.

 

 

The kids loved hockey…but things were getting out of hand.

  • Every weekend from October to April was spent at hockey rinks…
  • Some a two-hour drive from their home.
  • The games were great…but making it work was taking a toll on everyone.
  • So…Sarah and Rich…disciples of a church I had been serving…put on the breaks.
  • Their kids were all great skaters…the engines of their teams.
  • But it was not working for their life as a family.
  • They must have been out of their minds.

 

 

Yes…we must be “out of our minds” to do as Jesus would do.

  • But to follow Jesus means putting aside the mindset of:
  • Me-first…it’s-not-my-fault…take-responsibility-for-yourself…my-time-is-too-important-for-the-likes-of-you.
  • For the sake of what is right and just.
  • For the sake of those we love.
  • For the sake of the common good.
  • God asks us to act as Jesus would.
  • Even if those around us think we are “out of our minds.”
  • But what others consider crazy can be the wisest…sanest and most faithful thing we do.