13th Sunday after Pentecost – September 7, 2025

Luke 14:25-33

Jesus knew how to gather a crowd.

  • The Gospel of Luke portrays him as a magnetic presence.
  • Large groups of people were drawn to his teaching.
  • No doubt some scratched their heads when they heard one of his parables…and then laughed out loud when they got the point.
  • People with physical and emotional needs leaned forward to experience his healing touch.
  • When their lives were changed…they told others about it.
  • The word spread quickly.
  • He drew people from every station and strata of life.

No wonder…then…that Luke tells us that crowds traveled with Jesus.

  • They stuck to him…where he went…they went.
  • The mass of people was enormous.

Perhaps some clung to him because of the parables Jesus told…like the one we read last week.

  • He had been invited for dinner.
  • At the table…the Lord declared that next time the host should expand the guest list.
  • A meal should never be limited to those who might return the invitation.
  • Therefore…invite those who could never return the favor.
  • The host should invite everyone without bounds.

The crowds had been sticking to Jesus like Velcro.

  • All were welcome to follow him.
  • All were free to go wherever Jesus went.
  • But that did not mean everybody who was attracted to Jesus would finish the journey with him.
  • So…in today’s gospel reading Jesus says some things that would likely thin the crowd. The Lord be with you.

The first thing he said is drastic.

  • Want to follow me? Hate your parents…your spouse and children…your extended relations…even your own life.
  • That’s harsh. It is one of the fiercest sayings he ever uttered.

If we didn’t know better…we would think this was a reply to fuel family tension.

  • A teenager may explode when given a clear curfew.
  • A future bride may despise her father if he rejects her choice of a husband.
  • Pain begets pain…words screamed become scars.
  • Loved ones are despised.
  • Should not the followers of Jesus be concerned about peace in their own families?

Scholars tell us this is a particular form of speech commonly used in Semitic cultures.

It is either-or language…just like when Jesus said we cannot worship God and wealth.

  • No slave can serve two masters…for a slave will either hate the one and love the other or be devoted to the one and despise the other.
  • Here…the distinction was between God or family.
  • We cannot give both ultimate honor.
  • For followers of Jesus…to hate their families meant giving the family second place in their affections.
  • God’s Kingdom comes first.

If we surveyed a large auditorium of Christians today…some would be struggling with Kingdom-family choices.

  • Some may hear Christ calling them to stand up for a cause that their own brothers and sisters resist.
  • Others may feel a tug to make a life change that family members will not understand.
  • When a person senses God’s call to pursue a new direction or a deeper expression of faith…
  • Those most resistant to that call may be sitting around the same dinner table.
  • As the preacher Fred Craddock often quipped:
  • The Holy Spirit rarely calls someone in a voice loud enough for the whole family to hear.

The point is this: The call of Christ comes before everything else.

  • Whether we choose to follow him…or he chooses us…discipleship is a matter of increasing clarity.
  • When we follow Jesus first…his invitation precedes our own willful wishes.
  • His values come before our own. Everybody and everything else must line up after him.

Jesus reminded his hearers that this clarity comes with a cost.

  • At various points…the discipleship road is steep.
  • They might be blessed for a season to find the path level…even refreshing.
  • Yet discipleship always demands something from them…and from us.
  • By putting Christ first…we choose to put other matters aside.

These days…a few excited converts may make a show of this…declaring how much they have sacrificed for their faith and obedience.

  • The fervent student deletes the hardcore rock-and-roll from his Apple Music play list.
  • Announcing how sanctified he has become.
  • The modest office worker convinces herself that a lack of social life is a spiritual discipline.
  • There may be little transformation in these souls.
  • At most they might experience a slight recalibration of the spirit.

Far more stirring are the quiet sacrifices that some make in leading lives of faithfulness.

  • There is the divorced engineer who passes up lucrative opportunities for relocation because she values the stability she provides for her children by staying in their small town.
  • Or there is a dentist who takes two weeks of unpaid personal time to fix smiles in an underserved city.
  • A retired teacher tells her pastor that she will not be in worship most
  • Sundays because the nearby soup kitchen cannot find anybody else to prepare meals on that morning.
  • That’s where God wants me to be…she says…adding…I meet Jesus in the breadline every week.

This is where discipleship hits the road:

  • In acts of service that benefit other people.
  • Each act requires a calculation of energy and effort.
  • Helping others in the name of Christ is never a quick fix.
  • It takes discipline and perseverance.
  • Not only do we discern the work…we see it through.
  • If we volunteer to work with teenagers…they count on us to keep showing up.
  • If we dedicate our time each week to sit with a lonely friend…it does no good to allow interruptions in that schedule…there is a cost.

When clarity is gained and the cost calculated…we discover one of the secrets of the Christian life.

  • There is a surprising liberation that comes as we follow Christ by offering our lives to others.
  • We can travel lightly…not needing luxuries.
  • God sets us free from our more selfish desires.

Joy…that is the secret.

  • Not happiness…nor freedom from struggle…but the sense that our lives have aligned with the purposes of God.
  • In giving ourselves away for the sake of God’s kingdom…we gain a clearer sense of who we are.
  • We see what God is doing and how we can be a part of it.
  • This is the true significance of being Jesus’ disciple.
  • In the best and deepest sense…we lose ourselves and gain the Savior.

The crowds will not always understand the call of discipleship…nor will they follow through to the end.

  • Jesus knew this…and he invites all to live the life of God’s dominion…
  • Yet the crowd often thins out as its members perceive what that life requires.

But we know what it will take…for his voice is uniquely calling us.

  • With increasing clarity…a counting of the cost and a deepening commitment…
  • Each of us is invited to respond to Jesus’ self-giving love by offering ourselves to him and his purposes.
  • We come to Christ with nothing in our hands.
  • Why? Because it is easier to embrace him when we are no longer clinging to anything else.