Fourth Sunday in Lent – March 10, 2024

John 3:14-21

This morning…I want to tell you about a guy I went to high school with.

  • Billy Frichal.
  • We were members of the same church.
  • We graduated together.
  • I went on to Luther College in Decorah, Iowa.
  • Later seminary…becoming a Lutheran Pastor.
  • Billy went on to the University of Wisconsin – Madison, WI.
  • Later becoming a Medical Doctor.

 

Bill…years later…shared this with me…in a letter:

  • “I grew up in the church.
  • Then I grew away from the church.
  • College…medical school and then to Vietnam as a battalion surgeon.
  • A MASH surgeon: (Mobile Army Surgical Hospital).
  • A place where I grew in cynicism.
  • A place where I found myself amid rice paddies.
  • Under the most inhuman conditions.
  • The sounds and smells of war and injured and dead bodies.
  • I grew away from God.”

 

The Lord be with you.

And also with you.

 

Bill’s relationship with God (or absence of a relationship with God) helps me understand what Jesus is talking about in today’s reading when he holds together love and judgment.

  • “God so loved the world that he gave his only Son” he says.
  • Insisting that “God did not send the Son into the world to condemn the world.
  • But in order that the world might be saved.”

 

Humanity…says Jesus…is like my running buddy Bill:

  • Jesus’ love letter shows up…and suddenly we must make a choice.
  • This is the judgment:
  • That the light has come into the world…and we prefer darkness.

 

The word our Bible translates as “judgment” is actually the root of our English word “crisis.”

  • And that gives us an important clue to understanding what Jesus is getting at.
  • Because what is a crisis?
  • What is a judgment?
  • It is a moment of truth.
  • A turning point.
  • A decision for one way and against another?

 

Robert Frost wrote:

  • Two roads diverged in a wood, and
    I took the one less traveled by,
    And that has made all the difference.
  • It’s where the rubber meets the road…and you must sort among all the maybes and the half-formed movements in your life and choose one.
  • You cannot go on the way you have been any more.
  • You must choose.
  • And Bill chose darkness.

 

It’s like Cheryl Strayed says in her book…Wild: (Also a movie).

  • Her book is a first-person memoir of her 1,100-mile hike along thePacific Crest Trail.
  • From the Mojave Desert through California and Oregon to the border with Washington State.
  • The story contains flashbacks to prior life occurrences that led her to begin her mountain-walking journey.

 

Cheryl was devastated by her mother’s death when she was 22 years old.

  • Her stepfather disengaged from her family.
  • And her brother and sister remained distant.
  • Cheryl became involved inheroin
  • And she and her husband divorced.

 

Seeking self-discovery and resolution of her enduring grief and personal challenges.

  • At age 26…Cheryl set out alone.
  • On a 1,100-mile journey.
  • Having no prior backpacking experience.
  • Wildintertwines the stories of Strayed’s life before and during the journey.
  • Describing her physical challenges and spiritual realizations while on the trail.

 

And so…whatever our crises is…

  • Something shines a big fat spotlight on where you are:
  • “You Are Here” on the maze-like map of your life.
  • And the map shows that you have come as far down this hallway as you can.
  • And now you must choose which way to go.
  • Cheryl chose life.

 

“This is the judgment!” says Jesus.

  • That the light comes into the world.
  • And people choose.”

 

Of course…it often does not feel like a choice.

  • Often it feels like we are stuck where we are.
  • No matter how much we recognize a need to change.
  • As the old prayer of confession has it:
  • “We are in bondage to sin and cannot free ourselves.”

 

And that is precisely what Jesus is talking about in this passage.

  • When we read that “people loved darkness rather than light because their deeds were evil” we do not identify.
  • Because we think of “evil” as deliberately villainous and despicable.
  • And we know that’s not us.

 

But that’s not what Jesus is saying.

  • The word he uses for “evil” was originally used to talk about the work of slaves.
  • People without choices.
  • Forced to toil continually with no results.
  • Knowing that no matter how hard they worked their only reward would be another day of toil.
  • That is evil.
  • And that is something we can identify with.

 

The sense of being trapped in futility.

  • Knowing this is no way to live.
  • Yet seeing no way out of our maze.
  • This is the human condition.
  • And this is what Jesus is talking about.
  • The crisis…what Jesus came to shine a light onto…
  • Is that we are stuck in futility.
  • And human sin…even when Jesus shows us another way…
  • Causes us to prefer to stick with the devil we know.
  • This is the judgment:
  • That the light came into the world…
  • And we prefer darkness.

 

My boyhood friend…Bill…grew up in a good and loving church.

  • And came from a good and loving family.
  • But he grew in cynicism.
  • War and worry and hate and fear and anger got the best of him.
  • And he chose death instead of life.
  • And he could not imagine finding his way back.

 

That is what Jesus is talking about.

  • But it doesn’t have to be that way.
  • God did not go to all the trouble of sending his Son merely to point an accusing finger.
  • He came to help.
  • To put the world right again.

 

And this is why:

  • So that no one need be destroyed.
  • “Come to me” Jesus said.
  • “All you who are weary and carrying heavy burdens…and I will give you rest.”
  • Bring your futility to me and set it down.

 

Some 3,300 years ago Moses led a nation of slaves to freedom.

  • They spent decades in a desert as toilsome as slavery.
  • Finally…the day came when they stood on the threshold of the Promised Land.
  • Behind them lay bleak desert.
  • Ahead of them a banquet of green pastureland.

 

As they stood poised to cross into this land…Moses spoke to them about making a choice.

  • You Are Here…he said…pointing to this pivotal moment in history.
  • Now decide which way you are going to go.
  • “I call heaven and earth to witness against you today that I have set before you life and death…blessings and curses.
  • Choose life so that you and your descendants may live…
  • Loving the Lord your God…
  • Obeying him…
  • And holding fast to him.
  • For that means life to you and length of days.”
  • Choose life.

 

A postscript:

  • What Bill wanted to report to me in his letter is that literally amid the rice paddies.
  • Under the most inhuman circumstances.
  • The sounds and smells of war.
  • He heard on his small transistor radio what he called the one sane voice.
  • The words of a radio preacher.

 

This one voice was not enough to stand against the blood.

  • But what he had heard in the rice paddies…
  • He heard again at the baptism of his daughter.
  • And he was drawn into the hearing of the Word and the life of the congregation’s faith community.

 

He will never be the same.

  • Never without the scars of war.
  • Nevertheless…he wrote:
  • “It is as if I have been swept up by…
  • And become captive to…
  • The wonderful message of God’s grace.”
  • Bill chose life!